Given that, love doesn't necessarily mean a boyfriend/husband. To me, it means loving all around. For friends, neighbors, pets, and yes...even strangers. It is a day of beauty and filling the world with love and acceptance. Most important, it is about loving yourself first and foremost.
As a single girl, I have a choice to spend the day bummed out I don't have a boyfriend that will fill my world with every dream of love and romance I can imagine. I'm learned that often that is a huge disappointment. I have learned the love I give and receive from my family and friends is just as fulfilling as any love a man could provide me. In fact, in many ways, it is much more.
So how does a single girl spend "Singles Awareness Day"? Well I slept in and then I got the biggest...furriest love fest from my shadow kitty, Sissy. Baby got so jealous, she had to give in and give some loves too against her better judgment. Then I decided to hit the first showing of "50 Shades of Grey". More on that in a separate post for those that don't want to read it.
I was completely surprised by receiving the most beautiful bouquet of flowers and chocolates from Nola. So completely surprising but also appreciated. Thanks for being my "Maybe" date sister. You are so thoughtful. I got lots of love on Social media and text messages. And even a few valentine's in the mail. I completely feel the love! You guys are the very best.
Since I've nurtured my mind, I am going to go to the gym and nurture my body. While I need to be very careful with my work out while my muscles are damaged, I want to coddle my heart and what muscle is left with some strength enticing exercise.
After the gym, I am going to shower and get comfy and enjoy some old movies. I have a few from the 40s and 50s recorded and ready. I might even paint my toenails a pretty shade of pink or red!
This afternoon, I sat on the deck and relaxed. I closed my eyes and spent a few minutes in the moment. I can feel a soft breeze across my body. The warmth of the sun on my skin. The birds singing as they fly by. I can hear the cars in the distance. I am overwhelmed by the feeling of love and appreciation for all that is around me. And I feel a sense of peace and acceptance for myself and the world I have created for myself. I have worked very hard to be where I am today. For the home I have created to keep me safe and centered. The relationships I have developed and cherish. I really am full. My heart and my soul are completely full. Thank you for that. Each of you play a part of that feeling. I hope your day is filled with beauty and love.
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