What dating as taught me

I don't know that I can even begin to explain what dating in your 50s is like.  But I have some very interesting observations to share.  Interesting enough, I had another date on Monday.  During the 9 hours  (yes 9...not exaggerating) of my date talking non-stop, I came up with the idea of bullet point lists of what I've learned during my recent dating.  I thought I would share.

1. If he says he sucks at dating, believe him.  He has had lots of experience in trying.
2. Most men over 50 want to date someone that looks 30 or less
3. When they say they are "average build", they are overweight but don't identify with that
4. They list tons of activities they like to do like hiking, skiing, running, etc.  That is an exaggeration.
5. Everyone has something when it comes to health.  My mobility issue is no big deal.
6. If they are still close friends with an Ex, they are not emotionally available
7. Losers come in all packages
8. Men aren't shy about telling you (without ever being intimate) they have erectile dysfunction....and most over 50 have it.
9. Men seem to really enjoy talking about themselves and don't really want to learn much about you.  Run from these men.
10. Since when did meeting for coffee at 2:00 turn into a 9 hour date without food?  Guys don't feel they need to take you to dinner anymore.  Eat before you go.
11. I am doing okay.  I am attractive, smart, successful and have lots of shit going well for me.
12. There are tons of women that will sleep with him when you say you want to wait until you know them better.  Don't be pushed.
13. Dating takes practice so always look for the good in every opportunity.
14. In order to meet the good guys, you have to sort through a bunch of frogs.  Don't give up.  He is out there.
15. Cats are always happy to love and cuddle when you come home mentally exhausted from your date.

I will keep trying.  Sometimes I just shake my head.  One thing is for sure is the dating landscape has changed quite a bit.